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追女生是一件很好玩的事情，因为它很简单，简单的同时也很难，而且充满无限的可能和不确定性。追女生是一件很简单的事情：因为你和女生在
一起，厉害的高手说什么都是对的，甚至不说什么也是对的，因为在现场，有经验的情场高手的本能会驱使其做正确地事情。那时候，你和女生在一起约会，真的单
单做自己就已经很容易吸引到女人了。
追女生同时是一件很困难的事情：很多人的答案说白了就是泛泛而谈，说了等于没说，或者读起来感觉很给力很爽，读完之后你还是不会，因为p用没有。脱离现场和当事人的具体情况的答案都是在耍流氓。
追 女生充满无限的可能和不确定性：我搞定过很多女人（也被很多女人搞定过），在酒吧里也从很多条件比我好的男人手里抢走过其女伴/女朋友，但还不是有很多女 人搞不定，甚至有一次耻辱的是和人家姑娘互动的很好，人家小姑娘看了一个帅哥，就主动贴上去了，这种事很丢人，但这也是我爱这场游戏的重要原因，只有赢没 有输得游戏不好玩。而且作为一个条件普通的男人，通过自己的努力和天赋在吸引女人方面做的比条件好的男人更加好，是一件很痛快的事情，我常常在酒吧里和刚 见面的姑娘亲热，旁边就会遇到不认识我的男人对我竖大拇指。
这里想跟条件普通的男人说一句：爱这场游戏，虽然你可能会被打击，但值得尝试和探索，因为这场游戏风险虽大（你可能会被女人拒绝/丢脸），但奖品也很丰厚（漂亮的女人和可供选择的伴侣）。
为什么对于有些男性来说追女人很难？
因为没经验，说白了就是缺乏成功经验。
我们在回答任何一个有关情感方面的技巧问题时，都不应脱离实际情况满嘴放炮夸夸其谈，可能你脱离具体的实际说出来让人感觉有道理，但还是那句话，对于很多情感小菜鸟，那没用。
知道和做到是两码事，说出来让人觉得有道理和自己能做到也是两码事。
看看追女生时涉及多少的变量：
1、男人：
A 外形如何？外形是否导致男人面对女人时缺乏自信/自卑？
B 身高如何？身高是否比女人矮？从而引起自己面对女人时的自卑心理？
C 年龄如何？年龄是否比女人太小，让女人觉得不太成熟或者女人因为年龄比男人大而缺乏自信/安全感，面对男人时，内心出现摇摆不定的情况？
D 性格如何？风趣幽默还是沉默寡言？自信满满还是缺乏自信？甚至是否严重到连说话时的发音都有问题，我以前有几个基础很差的学员，连跟女生说话都成问题，这时你跟她讲什么聊天技巧，选择什么样的聊天话题，那完全是不负责任的扯淡。
男人身上的变量可举的例子还有很多，这里只是给大家一个思路。
2、女人：
A 外形如何？
好看，非常好看，还是绝顶好看？
外形上的优势会在一定程度上影响女人的心态，尤其是面对男人时的心态。
同 样的话，跟7分女人讲可能有效，跟9分女人讲，人家会当你是 2 B，比如赞美，赞美一个不太经常会收到赞美的女人，若你表达方式得当，时机把握得好，女人会很受用，若此方式完全不改，照搬照抄到9分女人身上，你便很容 易沦为和其他垂涎她美貌的屌丝同列，你的赞美在女人眼里就是个P，除了显得你廉价之外毫无用处。
B 人生阶段如何？女人的心态如何？
跟一个还没入社会的小姑娘，你带她逛逛校园/公园/植物园/动物园，聊天时幽默一下，再带女生浪漫一下，很容易吸引到人家小姑娘；
若你是一个乳臭未干的臭小子，跟一个入社会很久，懂得利用自身美貌换取资源的28岁女人试试？
她对你一个小屁孩能有多大兴趣？
这里并非指年龄小的男人不能追求到比自己年龄大的成熟且成功的女性，是根据大部分菜鸟的具体情况，这可能会有点难度，但还是可以的，此话题略偏，在此避开不谈。
C 女人的情绪状态如何？
跟女人聊天时女人的情绪状态很重要，若一个男人忽略女人的情绪状态，常常说什么都是错的。
女人的情绪是指引男人与其互动最有力的指标。
很多情场小菜鸟和女人在一起追求所谓的聊天的效果，比如要幽默，要逗得女人开心；要聊得来，不能冷场。
但我想说的是真正会聊天的人知道什么时候该说以及说什么，什么时候闭嘴以及好好倾听女人的心声。
更厉害的人是能够通过语言/行为/态度/策略改变女人的情绪状态，那叫会哄女人。
女人情绪状态不佳，比如工作中受了气，倾听女人，让其发泄不满的情绪比你说很多P话管用；
女人压力大感觉无助，你的关心和对其重视/在乎的态度胜过那些不着调的话。
问 如何与女人聊天以及追女生时该聊什么样的话题的男性都很容易犯这样的错误，在此提醒一下各位男性，和女人聊天时若你想着一个特定的目的或者想使用某个技 巧，你和女人聊天是做不好的，因为聊天讲究节奏感和现场的及时反映，刻意的追求某个目的或者使用某个技巧就会违反你的本能/本性反应，打乱聊天的节奏感。
有多少人学习所谓的与女人的聊天技巧感觉很变扭/不自在的？
同时让和你聊天的女人觉得你不真诚，像个2 B。
和女人聊天可以练习，学习相关技巧和理念，但不要把这些带到现场（或者说现场时不要刻意想这些），不然你会做得更糟糕。
D 是否有男朋友？
虽然我不鼓励男人去追求一个有男朋友的女生，但若你是发自内心的喜欢一个女生，而且想带给对方幸福，又发现女生男朋友靠不住/有外遇，而不是只是想和女生睡一觉就走，那就大胆的去追，把自己喜欢的女生的幸福交到其他男人手里，还不如自己来把握。
但有多少菜鸟挖墙脚知道怎么挖？
很少。
面对有男朋友和无男朋友的女生，你与其聊天的话题/语气/态度在和女生最开始接触的时候有很大的区别，即便是吸引到女生之后，你采用的策略以及遇到的困难都会有很大的不同，这也决定了你和女人聊天时说的话有所不同。
女人身上的变量还有很多，上面只是举一些简单的例子而已，意思到了就行。
顺便提一点：
说到女人身上的变量，提醒广大男性同胞，不要说什么女人太内向/安静/害羞/保守/是个处女所以你搞不定，这些都不是你搞不定女生的原因，你搞不定女人只能是因为你太菜了而已。
在我眼里没有太内向/太保守的女生，女生怎么样，取决于她所面对的男人，把精力放到这些无实质意义的因素上纯属浪费时间。
你男性的本能可能会引导你让觉得这些是重要的事，但我想告诉你，以我亲身经历过众多女人的经验以及教了几百个学员追女生的教学经验告诉你，这些不重要。
没有绝对的荡妇也没有绝对的忠贞烈女，女人是什么样子取决于她所面对的男人。
3 你与女人约会的场景/环境
A 物理环境/客观空间：
人多还是人少，有无熟人在场？
是否方便聊天交流？
还是更易于游戏互动？
举个极端的例子：
在酒吧我做过这样的事，跟一刚认识不久的姑娘说：“姑娘我发现你太好了，今晚我要把你睡了”
人姑娘听了开心的笑个不停。
你要是和一姑娘在一咖啡馆里说就显得有点不合时宜了。
B 社交环境
与女生有社交联系的人是否在场？
其是否会影响女人的心理？
若会影响女人的心理，是好的影响还是坏的影响？
举个极端例子：
女生爸妈在场时，你聊天的尺度和开玩笑的尺度我相信你还是会有所收敛的。
4 你与女人感情发展的阶段/你与女人所处的情感状态
这一点很好理解，举几个例子加以说明：
A 跟一女生见过一次面，留了电话/在微信陌陌上聊天聊得不错，但没见过。
打电话给女生：“在干嘛呢？”
女生：“看电视”
我：“最近X战警逆转未来上映了，网上评价很不错，我想去看，想约上你一起”
B 和一个女生约过一次会，约会过程中有过牵手，送其回家时告别时拥抱了一下。
女生来电话，接起，开心的说：“哎，刚想给你打电话你就打来了”
我相信女生听了会很开心。
C 和以前一年没见但常跟我打电话说想我的一个姑娘通电话。
我打给她，她接到电话，高兴的说：“咦，大忙人今天怎么想起给我打电话了？”
我温柔地说道：“想你了，所以给你打个电话，想听听你的声音”
女人听了会感觉很柔情。
D 跟老婆，再恶心的话说出口，对方也会觉得你好可爱。
我先躺在床上，老婆在洗澡，于是淫荡的说：“老婆，我JB变得又硬又大了，你怎么还不过来？”
（这个例子有点操蛋，但事实如此，不知是否违反知乎的什么规范啥的？）
类似的变量还有很多，毕竟人是极其复杂的动物，就不再举例了，意思到了就行。
上面吹了那么久，只是想给大家一个思路，和女生约会也好，聊天也罢，要做符合实际情况的事情，不要脱离实际，具体情况具体分析，我不会蠢到教一个极度缺乏自信的男人去背几个幽默段子或者冷笑话去逗女生开心，做不好，很容易成逗B的。
下面开始正式回到此问题：
追一个女孩子时，聊些什么话题比较好？
原则：聊你想聊的，聊女生感兴趣的。
理念：聊天的话题和方式要符合你与女生的感情阶段以及所处的场景/环境。
方式：自然而然的切入/引入双方都感兴趣的聊天话题
技巧：说什么不重要，重要的是怎么说
1、聊你想聊的。
A 不是幽默的人不要装幽默，伪装自己是最不可取的行为，无论是追女生还是学习/工作/生活；
B 不想聊天时不要因为怕冷场或者场面尴尬就硬着头皮上，闭嘴有时候比你没话找话要好得多；
人多的时候，自己不想聊天，就听别人吹牛B，乖乖吃/喝东西，不要因为觉得自己没说话显得不礼貌/不合群，你没有责任和义务讨好其他人/与他们打成一片，我能告诉你在多人吃饭/聊天时候，最引人注目的人是最安静的那个人，然后才是那个说的最多让人最讨人厌的那个人吗？
但请注意，懂得安静和性格内向是两码事，不要混淆。
C 聊自己擅长的/熟悉的/充满激情的话题。
比如
a 冷门知识/有趣的见闻
我能告诉你世界卫生组织旗下有个研究机构叫“ 女性性高潮研究委员会”吗？；
我能告诉你玉皇大帝和王母娘娘是同事而不是夫妻吗？；
我能告诉你在中国大陆上映的电影是不准出现真正意义上的鬼吗？因为这是广电总局规定的；
我能告诉你我很多学员和女生约会时聊到我吗？我的那些退学啦，辞职到丽江旅行啦，教人追女生啦，各种烂事，结果女生听了我的这些破事之后对我好奇得不行。
b 自己擅长的行业/知识面
有个词叫不明觉厉，很好地说明你你擅长的东西即便别人不懂也是可以赢得别人好感/佩服的；
不要告诉我你没有擅长的，没有就去学习去积累，天天待在家做抠脚大汉不读书不出去见世面，当然不懂咯，所以人生是需要积累和沉淀的。
和女生聊天的话题也是需要积累和沉淀的。
c 有趣的经历/故事
拿我举例：
a 退过学：
觉得学校教的东西垃圾就把学校炒了鱿鱼，然后独身一人到了陌生的昆明，第一天晚上到，第二天找到工作，第三天开始上班，两个星期之后升职。。。。。。一年之后被一老外挖走送去泰国
b 辞职旅行，专职艳遇：
辞职做无业游民已经一年，每天睡觉睡到自然醒。
在丽江遇到女生问我干嘛的？
我就说专门辞职来丽江艳遇的，结果人家姑娘听了都不信，反正最后的最后我是把人家小姑娘给艳遇了。
到目前为止我活得还挺开心的。
c 在泰国上语言不通的陌生人的车，和她们一起去吃早餐：
我在泰国，住在一家酒店里，一早起来在海边看大海，然后不远处有几个泰国人对我招手，示意我上车，我也不认识对方，对方又不会说英文，完全没法沟通，反正最后我是跑人家车上坐着，然后他们带我去吃了个早餐，本来人家是要开车去普吉岛的，可惜要我要上班就没去成。
上面的破事只是简单描述而已，你们又不是小姑娘，我才懒得跟你们好好说呢。
生活不是缺少美，而是缺少发现美的眼睛，大家多留意，多经历，你亲身经历过得有趣的故事可以深刻的打动女生以及引起对方的兴趣/对你的好奇。
d 深刻的/附有智慧的理念/观点/生活
附有智慧的观点：太简单，略过不讲。
理想的生活：我常常和女生在一起聊起比如我想开间咖啡馆/书吧，在把这样惬意的生活描绘的精彩点，很容易引起女生的向往/憧憬，若你再运气好点/厉害点，遇上和你有一样生活理想的姑娘，那个相见恨晚啦，心有灵犀啦，超多共同语言啦，这些都会轻易拉近你和女生之间的距离。
reference:
追女生同时是一件很困难的事情：很多人的答案说白了就是泛泛而谈，说了等于没说，或者读起来感觉很给力很爽，读完之后你还是不会，因为p用没有。脱离现场和当事人的具体情况的答案都是在耍流氓。
追 女生充满无限的可能和不确定性：我搞定过很多女人（也被很多女人搞定过），在酒吧里也从很多条件比我好的男人手里抢走过其女伴/女朋友，但还不是有很多女 人搞不定，甚至有一次耻辱的是和人家姑娘互动的很好，人家小姑娘看了一个帅哥，就主动贴上去了，这种事很丢人，但这也是我爱这场游戏的重要原因，只有赢没 有输得游戏不好玩。而且作为一个条件普通的男人，通过自己的努力和天赋在吸引女人方面做的比条件好的男人更加好，是一件很痛快的事情，我常常在酒吧里和刚 见面的姑娘亲热，旁边就会遇到不认识我的男人对我竖大拇指。
这里想跟条件普通的男人说一句：爱这场游戏，虽然你可能会被打击，但值得尝试和探索，因为这场游戏风险虽大（你可能会被女人拒绝/丢脸），但奖品也很丰厚（漂亮的女人和可供选择的伴侣）。
为什么对于有些男性来说追女人很难？
因为没经验，说白了就是缺乏成功经验。
我们在回答任何一个有关情感方面的技巧问题时，都不应脱离实际情况满嘴放炮夸夸其谈，可能你脱离具体的实际说出来让人感觉有道理，但还是那句话，对于很多情感小菜鸟，那没用。
知道和做到是两码事，说出来让人觉得有道理和自己能做到也是两码事。
看看追女生时涉及多少的变量：
1、男人：
A 外形如何？外形是否导致男人面对女人时缺乏自信/自卑？
B 身高如何？身高是否比女人矮？从而引起自己面对女人时的自卑心理？
C 年龄如何？年龄是否比女人太小，让女人觉得不太成熟或者女人因为年龄比男人大而缺乏自信/安全感，面对男人时，内心出现摇摆不定的情况？
D 性格如何？风趣幽默还是沉默寡言？自信满满还是缺乏自信？甚至是否严重到连说话时的发音都有问题，我以前有几个基础很差的学员，连跟女生说话都成问题，这时你跟她讲什么聊天技巧，选择什么样的聊天话题，那完全是不负责任的扯淡。
男人身上的变量可举的例子还有很多，这里只是给大家一个思路。
2、女人：
A 外形如何？
好看，非常好看，还是绝顶好看？
外形上的优势会在一定程度上影响女人的心态，尤其是面对男人时的心态。
同 样的话，跟7分女人讲可能有效，跟9分女人讲，人家会当你是 2 B，比如赞美，赞美一个不太经常会收到赞美的女人，若你表达方式得当，时机把握得好，女人会很受用，若此方式完全不改，照搬照抄到9分女人身上，你便很容 易沦为和其他垂涎她美貌的屌丝同列，你的赞美在女人眼里就是个P，除了显得你廉价之外毫无用处。
B 人生阶段如何？女人的心态如何？
跟一个还没入社会的小姑娘，你带她逛逛校园/公园/植物园/动物园，聊天时幽默一下，再带女生浪漫一下，很容易吸引到人家小姑娘；
若你是一个乳臭未干的臭小子，跟一个入社会很久，懂得利用自身美貌换取资源的28岁女人试试？
她对你一个小屁孩能有多大兴趣？
这里并非指年龄小的男人不能追求到比自己年龄大的成熟且成功的女性，是根据大部分菜鸟的具体情况，这可能会有点难度，但还是可以的，此话题略偏，在此避开不谈。
C 女人的情绪状态如何？
跟女人聊天时女人的情绪状态很重要，若一个男人忽略女人的情绪状态，常常说什么都是错的。
女人的情绪是指引男人与其互动最有力的指标。
很多情场小菜鸟和女人在一起追求所谓的聊天的效果，比如要幽默，要逗得女人开心；要聊得来，不能冷场。
但我想说的是真正会聊天的人知道什么时候该说以及说什么，什么时候闭嘴以及好好倾听女人的心声。
更厉害的人是能够通过语言/行为/态度/策略改变女人的情绪状态，那叫会哄女人。
女人情绪状态不佳，比如工作中受了气，倾听女人，让其发泄不满的情绪比你说很多P话管用；
女人压力大感觉无助，你的关心和对其重视/在乎的态度胜过那些不着调的话。
问 如何与女人聊天以及追女生时该聊什么样的话题的男性都很容易犯这样的错误，在此提醒一下各位男性，和女人聊天时若你想着一个特定的目的或者想使用某个技 巧，你和女人聊天是做不好的，因为聊天讲究节奏感和现场的及时反映，刻意的追求某个目的或者使用某个技巧就会违反你的本能/本性反应，打乱聊天的节奏感。
有多少人学习所谓的与女人的聊天技巧感觉很变扭/不自在的？
同时让和你聊天的女人觉得你不真诚，像个2 B。
和女人聊天可以练习，学习相关技巧和理念，但不要把这些带到现场（或者说现场时不要刻意想这些），不然你会做得更糟糕。
D 是否有男朋友？
虽然我不鼓励男人去追求一个有男朋友的女生，但若你是发自内心的喜欢一个女生，而且想带给对方幸福，又发现女生男朋友靠不住/有外遇，而不是只是想和女生睡一觉就走，那就大胆的去追，把自己喜欢的女生的幸福交到其他男人手里，还不如自己来把握。
但有多少菜鸟挖墙脚知道怎么挖？
很少。
面对有男朋友和无男朋友的女生，你与其聊天的话题/语气/态度在和女生最开始接触的时候有很大的区别，即便是吸引到女生之后，你采用的策略以及遇到的困难都会有很大的不同，这也决定了你和女人聊天时说的话有所不同。
女人身上的变量还有很多，上面只是举一些简单的例子而已，意思到了就行。
顺便提一点：
说到女人身上的变量，提醒广大男性同胞，不要说什么女人太内向/安静/害羞/保守/是个处女所以你搞不定，这些都不是你搞不定女生的原因，你搞不定女人只能是因为你太菜了而已。
在我眼里没有太内向/太保守的女生，女生怎么样，取决于她所面对的男人，把精力放到这些无实质意义的因素上纯属浪费时间。
你男性的本能可能会引导你让觉得这些是重要的事，但我想告诉你，以我亲身经历过众多女人的经验以及教了几百个学员追女生的教学经验告诉你，这些不重要。
没有绝对的荡妇也没有绝对的忠贞烈女，女人是什么样子取决于她所面对的男人。
3 你与女人约会的场景/环境
A 物理环境/客观空间：
人多还是人少，有无熟人在场？
是否方便聊天交流？
还是更易于游戏互动？
举个极端的例子：
在酒吧我做过这样的事，跟一刚认识不久的姑娘说：“姑娘我发现你太好了，今晚我要把你睡了”
人姑娘听了开心的笑个不停。
你要是和一姑娘在一咖啡馆里说就显得有点不合时宜了。
B 社交环境
与女生有社交联系的人是否在场？
其是否会影响女人的心理？
若会影响女人的心理，是好的影响还是坏的影响？
举个极端例子：
女生爸妈在场时，你聊天的尺度和开玩笑的尺度我相信你还是会有所收敛的。
4 你与女人感情发展的阶段/你与女人所处的情感状态
这一点很好理解，举几个例子加以说明：
A 跟一女生见过一次面，留了电话/在微信陌陌上聊天聊得不错，但没见过。
打电话给女生：“在干嘛呢？”
女生：“看电视”
我：“最近X战警逆转未来上映了，网上评价很不错，我想去看，想约上你一起”
B 和一个女生约过一次会，约会过程中有过牵手，送其回家时告别时拥抱了一下。
女生来电话，接起，开心的说：“哎，刚想给你打电话你就打来了”
我相信女生听了会很开心。
C 和以前一年没见但常跟我打电话说想我的一个姑娘通电话。
我打给她，她接到电话，高兴的说：“咦，大忙人今天怎么想起给我打电话了？”
我温柔地说道：“想你了，所以给你打个电话，想听听你的声音”
女人听了会感觉很柔情。
D 跟老婆，再恶心的话说出口，对方也会觉得你好可爱。
我先躺在床上，老婆在洗澡，于是淫荡的说：“老婆，我JB变得又硬又大了，你怎么还不过来？”
（这个例子有点操蛋，但事实如此，不知是否违反知乎的什么规范啥的？）
类似的变量还有很多，毕竟人是极其复杂的动物，就不再举例了，意思到了就行。
上面吹了那么久，只是想给大家一个思路，和女生约会也好，聊天也罢，要做符合实际情况的事情，不要脱离实际，具体情况具体分析，我不会蠢到教一个极度缺乏自信的男人去背几个幽默段子或者冷笑话去逗女生开心，做不好，很容易成逗B的。
下面开始正式回到此问题：
追一个女孩子时，聊些什么话题比较好？
原则：聊你想聊的，聊女生感兴趣的。
理念：聊天的话题和方式要符合你与女生的感情阶段以及所处的场景/环境。
方式：自然而然的切入/引入双方都感兴趣的聊天话题
技巧：说什么不重要，重要的是怎么说
1、聊你想聊的。
A 不是幽默的人不要装幽默，伪装自己是最不可取的行为，无论是追女生还是学习/工作/生活；
B 不想聊天时不要因为怕冷场或者场面尴尬就硬着头皮上，闭嘴有时候比你没话找话要好得多；
人多的时候，自己不想聊天，就听别人吹牛B，乖乖吃/喝东西，不要因为觉得自己没说话显得不礼貌/不合群，你没有责任和义务讨好其他人/与他们打成一片，我能告诉你在多人吃饭/聊天时候，最引人注目的人是最安静的那个人，然后才是那个说的最多让人最讨人厌的那个人吗？
但请注意，懂得安静和性格内向是两码事，不要混淆。
C 聊自己擅长的/熟悉的/充满激情的话题。
比如
a 冷门知识/有趣的见闻
我能告诉你世界卫生组织旗下有个研究机构叫“ 女性性高潮研究委员会”吗？；
我能告诉你玉皇大帝和王母娘娘是同事而不是夫妻吗？；
我能告诉你在中国大陆上映的电影是不准出现真正意义上的鬼吗？因为这是广电总局规定的；
我能告诉你我很多学员和女生约会时聊到我吗？我的那些退学啦，辞职到丽江旅行啦，教人追女生啦，各种烂事，结果女生听了我的这些破事之后对我好奇得不行。
b 自己擅长的行业/知识面
有个词叫不明觉厉，很好地说明你你擅长的东西即便别人不懂也是可以赢得别人好感/佩服的；
不要告诉我你没有擅长的，没有就去学习去积累，天天待在家做抠脚大汉不读书不出去见世面，当然不懂咯，所以人生是需要积累和沉淀的。
和女生聊天的话题也是需要积累和沉淀的。
c 有趣的经历/故事
拿我举例：
a 退过学：
觉得学校教的东西垃圾就把学校炒了鱿鱼，然后独身一人到了陌生的昆明，第一天晚上到，第二天找到工作，第三天开始上班，两个星期之后升职。。。。。。一年之后被一老外挖走送去泰国
b 辞职旅行，专职艳遇：
辞职做无业游民已经一年，每天睡觉睡到自然醒。
在丽江遇到女生问我干嘛的？
我就说专门辞职来丽江艳遇的，结果人家姑娘听了都不信，反正最后的最后我是把人家小姑娘给艳遇了。
到目前为止我活得还挺开心的。
c 在泰国上语言不通的陌生人的车，和她们一起去吃早餐：
我在泰国，住在一家酒店里，一早起来在海边看大海，然后不远处有几个泰国人对我招手，示意我上车，我也不认识对方，对方又不会说英文，完全没法沟通，反正最后我是跑人家车上坐着，然后他们带我去吃了个早餐，本来人家是要开车去普吉岛的，可惜要我要上班就没去成。
上面的破事只是简单描述而已，你们又不是小姑娘，我才懒得跟你们好好说呢。
生活不是缺少美，而是缺少发现美的眼睛，大家多留意，多经历，你亲身经历过得有趣的故事可以深刻的打动女生以及引起对方的兴趣/对你的好奇。
d 深刻的/附有智慧的理念/观点/生活
附有智慧的观点：太简单，略过不讲。
理想的生活：我常常和女生在一起聊起比如我想开间咖啡馆/书吧，在把这样惬意的生活描绘的精彩点，很容易引起女生的向往/憧憬，若你再运气好点/厉害点，遇上和你有一样生活理想的姑娘，那个相见恨晚啦，心有灵犀啦，超多共同语言啦，这些都会轻易拉近你和女生之间的距离。
reference:
http://www.zhihu.com/question/20324671
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propagate
verb
[VN] (formal) to spread an idea, a belief or a piece of
information among many people: Television
advertising propagates a false image of the ideal family.
(technical) to produce new plants
from a parent plant: [VN] The plant can be propagated from seed
locus noun
(plural loci /ˈləusaɪ/) (formal or
technical) the exact place where sth happens or which is thought to be the
centre of sth: the external locus of control
PM2.5 are
tiny particles in the air that reduce visibility and cause the air to appear
hazy /ˈheɪzi/when levels are elevated
There
were many flowers left behind. Most of them were withered
hang up
to end a telephone conversation by
putting the telephone receiver down or switching the telephone offAfter
I hung up I remembered what I'd wanted to say.
tender
adjective, noun,
verb
adjective (tenderer, tenderest)
Help Note: more tender and most tender are also common
kind, gentle and loving: tender words / looks /
kisses ◆ What he needs now is a lot
of tender loving care (= sympathetic treatment).
(of food) easy to bite
through and cut: This
meat is extremely tender. ◆
Boil the beans until they are tender.
Stock
[U, C] a liquid made by cooking bones, meat, etc. in water, used
for making soups and sauces: fish /
vegetable stock
A mosquito coil is
a mosquito repelling incense, usually shaped into a spiral, and typically made from a
dried paste of pyrethrum powder.
Honeycomb
Artificial cultivation
King cobra
Dandruff is a common skin condition
that causes dry white or grey flakes of dead skin to appear in the scalp
or hair.
Paprika
is the ground bright red powder from sweet and hot dried peppers
Warrant [countable] a legal
document that is signed by a judge and gives the police authority to do
something an arrest warrant
decor noun
[U, C, usually
sing.] the style in which the inside of a
building is decorated: interior decor
Dog eat
dog
used to describe a situation in which people will do anything to be successful, even if what they do harms other people:It's a
dog-eat-dog world out there.
good
people" is not a comment on their morals
~ sb (from sth) to officially remove sb from their job: She claims she was unfairly dismissed from her post.
I
was sceptical about the girls that work here
She
tilts her head against the wall
His
amiable demeanour has evaporated
The
first time I pulled my knickers down I felt my soul fall out
Handstand
British
nationals constituted over half the
dancers
accompany verb (accompanies,
accompanying, accompanied, accompanied) [VN]
(formal) to travel or go
somewhere with sb: His wife accompanied him on the trip. ◆ I must ask you to
accompany me to the police station
Bush
(often the bush) [U]
an area of wild land that has not been cleared, especially in Africa and
Australia
beat around the
bush
To fail to come to the important point about something; from the idea of a hunted
animal hiding in a bush while the hunter is too timorous to follow it in there.
Enclosed (abbreviation encl.) sent
with a letter, etc: Please complete the
enclosed application form.
taper verb, noun
to become gradually
narrower; to make sth become gradually narrower: [V] The tail tapered to a rounded tip.
cardio
car·di·o /ˈkɑːdiəu US ˈkɑːrdiou/ n [U] informal
any type of exercise that makes the heart
stronger and healthier, for example running
a combination
of cardio, weight training, and kung fu
Elaborate
very complicated and detailed; carefully
prepared and organizedelaborate designs
induce verb
[VN to inf] (formal) to persuade or influence sb to do sth: Nothing would induce me to take the job.
[VN] (formal) to cause sth: drugs which induce sleep ◆ a drug-induced coma
[VN] (medical) to make a woman start giving birth to her baby
by giving her special drugs: an induced
labour
vine noun
a climbing plant that
produces grapes: grapes on the
vine
harmonic /hɑːˈmonɪk/adjective, noun
adjective [usually
before noun] (music) relating to the way notes
are played or sung together to make a pleasing sound: the harmonic and rhythmic interest of the music
noun [usually
pl.] (music) a note that can be played on some
musical instruments, that is higher and quieter than the main note being played
Morphology
prolific adjective
(of an artist, a writer,
etc.) producing many works, etc: a
prolific author
In academia, a fellow is
a member of a group of learned people who work together as peers in the pursuit of mutual knowledge or practice.
Fellows may include visiting professors, postdoctoral researchers and doctoral researchers.
A combustion
chamber is that part of an internal
combustion engine (ICE) in which the fuel/air mix is burned.
symphony
/ ˈsɪmfənɪ; ˋsɪmfənɪ/ n long complex musical
composition, usu in three or four parts (movements) for a large orchestra
chamber /ˈtʃeɪmbə/ noun
[C] a hall in a public building
that is used for formal meetings: The members left the council chamber. ◆ the Senate / House chamber
bu·reau /ˈbjuərəu/
an office or organization that provides
information on a particular subject: an employment bureau
the
aftermath of two explosions
Aftermath
the
situation that exists as a result of an important (and usually unpleasant)
event, especially a war, an accident, etc.
A lot of rebuilding took place in
the aftermath of the war.
toast crumbs,
Would
you like to leave a message?
Miss Saima Ahmed,Research
Support Administrator
lingo
noun [sing.] (informal)
a language, especially a foreign
language: He doesn't speak the lingo.
(especially AmE)
expressions used by a particular group of people
exert /ɪgˈzəːt/
verb [VN]
to use power or
influence to affect sb/sth: He exerted all his authority to make them accept the
plan. ◆ The moon exerts a force on the earth that causes the tides.
~ yourself to make a big effort: In order to be
successful he would have to exert himself.
Laplace (/ləˈplɑːs/
missionary
noun
(plural missionaries) a person who
is sent to a foreign country to teach people about Christianity: Baptist missionaries
hitch-hike
verb
[V] to travel by asking for free rides in other
people's cars, by standing at the side of the road and trying to get passing
cars to stop: They hitch-hiked
around Europe.
hitch-hiker noun: He picked up two hitch-hikers on the road to
Salisbury.
hitch
verb, noun
verb
to get a free ride in a
person's car; to travel around in this way, by standing at the side of the road
and trying to get passing cars to stop: [VN]
They hitched a ride in a truck
slay
[VN]
(old-fashioned or
literary) to kill sb/sth in a war or a fight: St George slew the dragon.
(especially AmE) (used especially in newspapers) to murder sb: Two passengers were slain by the hijackers.
veteran
vet·e·ran /ˈvetərən/ n [C]
[Date: 1500-1600; Language:
Latin; Origin: veteranus, from veteranus 'old, of long experience', from vetus 'old']
someone who has been a soldier, sailor etc in a
war
veteran of
a veteran of
the Second World War
relief noun
removal of anxiety / pain
[U,
sing.] the feeling of happiness that you have when sth unpleasant stops or
does not happen: a sense of relief ◆ We all breathed a sigh of relief when he left. ◆ She sighed with
relief. ◆ Much to my relief the car was not damaged. ◆ News of their
safety came as a great relief. ◆ It was a relief to be able to talk to someone about
it. ◆ What a relief!
[U] ~ (from / of sth)
the act of removing or reducing pain, anxiety, etc: modern methods
of pain relief ◆ the relief of misery / poverty / suffering ◆ Massage can
bring some relief from tension. ◆ Volunteers provide regular help to give relief to
carers.
syllable
noun
any of the units
into which a word is divided, containing a vowel sound and usually one or more
consonants: a word with two syllables ◆ a two-syllable word ◆ 'Potato' is stressed on the second
syllable.
It
is worth taking a moment to check back
strobe
(also strobe light)
noun
a bright light that flashes rapidly on and off,
used especially at DISCOS
Splits
A split (commonly
referred to as splits or the splits) is a physical position in which the legs are in line with
each other and extended in opposite directions.
gangster
noun
a member of a group of
violent criminals: Chicago
gangsters
Interface
Dialog Box
there
are no conditions to be set.
Interface
zones are used for multiple reference frame and sliding mesh calculations, and
for non-conformal meshes
unsolicited
adjective
not asked for and
sometimes not wanted: unsolicited comments / criticism / advice ◆ The record
company receives dozens of unsolicited demo tapes each week.
refreshing
adjective
pleasantly new or different: It made a refreshing change
to be taken seriously for once. ◆
It's refreshing to meet someone who is so dedicated to their work.
making you feel less tired or
hot: a
refreshing drink / shower ◆
The breeze was cool and refreshing.
siren
noun
a device that makes a
long loud sound as a signal or warning: an air-raid siren
Dummy
adjective [only
before noun] made to look real, although it is
actually a copy which does not work: a dummy
bomb / rifle
Rig
equipment that is used for a
special purpose: a CB radio rig
slick
adjective, noun,
verb
adjective (slicker, slickest)
(sometimes disapproving) done
or made in a way that is clever and efficient but often does not seem to be
sincere or lacks important ideas: a slick advertising campaign ◆ a slick performance ◆
You had to admire the slick presentation of last night's awards ceremony.
(sometimes disapproving) speaking very easily and
smoothly but in a way that does not seem sincere
slick
down/back [slick sth⇔down/back] phr v
to make hair smooth and shiny by putting oil,
water etc on it
His hair had
been combed back and slicked down with something to make it neat.
Pomade
a
sweet-smelling oily substance men used to rub on their hair to make it smooth,
especially in the past
verdict
noun
a decision that is made by a JURY
in a court of law, stating if sb is considered guilty of a crime or not: Has the jury reached a verdict?
tedious
details.
intimidate
verb
[VN] ~ sb (into sth / into doing sth) to frighten or
threaten sb so that they will do what you want: They were accused of intimidating people into voting for them
vendor noun
a person who sells things, for
example food or newspapers, usually outside on the street: street vendors
(law) a person who is selling a house or other
property
Compare: SELLER
subsidiaries.
A
payment terminal, also known as a point of sale terminal, credit card terminal,
legitimate
business
Remember
to always stay vigilant when using your debit card.
Van
Pickup artist
nocturnal /nɔkˈtəːnl /
adjective
(of animals) active at night
Antonym: DIURNAL
(written) happening
during the night: a nocturnal
visit
A nocturnal
emission or wet dream is a spontaneous orgasm
during sleep that includes ejaculation for a male, or vaginal wetness or an orgasm (or both) for a female
orgasm noun
[U,
C]
the moment during sexual activity when feelings of sexual pleasure are at their
strongest: to achieve / reach orgasm ◆ to have an orgasm
Ejaculation
is the discharge of semen (normally containing sperm)
from the male
reproductory tract, usually accompanied by orgasm.
ejaculation noun
[C, U] the act of ejaculating; the moment when SPERM
comes out of a man's PENIS: premature
ejaculation
emission
noun
[U] (formal) the
production or sending out of light, heat, gas, etc: the emission of
carbon dioxide into the atmosphere ◆ emission controls
[C] gas, etc. that is sent out into the air: The government has pledged to clean up
industrial emissions.
patron
noun
a person who gives money
and support to artists and writers: Frederick the Great was the patron of many artists.
a famous person who
supports an organization such as a charity and whose name is used in the
advertisements, etc. for the organization: Diana, Princess of Wales was patron of the charity Birthright.
(formal) a person who
uses a particular shop/store, restaurant, theatre, etc: Patrons are requested not to smoke.
merchant ['mɜrtʃənt /'mɜː-]
n.
a businessperson engaged in retail trade
asylum
a·sy·lum /əˈsaɪləm/ n
[Date: 1400-1500; Language:
Latin; Origin: Greek asylon, from asylos 'not able to be seized']
[U]
protection given to someone by a government
because they have escaped from fighting or political trouble in their own
country
apply for/seek/be
granted asylum
He has been
granted asylum in France
manifold 2
manifold2 n [C] technical
an arrangement of pipes through which gases enter
or leave a car engine
arterial
ar·ter·i·al /ɑːˈtɪəriəl US ɑːrˈtɪr-/ adj
involving the arteries
arterial blood
[only before noun]
an arterial road is one of the main roads in a
city, country etc
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Pesticide residue refers to the pesticides that may remain on or in food after they are applied to
food crops.[1] The
levels of these residues in foods are often stipulated by regulatory bodies in
many countries.
London's best butchers
halal
ha·lal
hallal /hɑːˈlɑːl/ adj [only before
noun]
[Date: 1800-1900; Language:
Arabic; Origin: 'that
which is lawful']
halal meat is meat from an animal that has been
killed in a way that is approved by Muslim law
If
you're using good tea leaves, you'll find they can be infused several times
Each
time you brew the tea, different subtleties of the delicate flavours will be
released. In China it is widely believed that the second or third brew of fine
tea is the best
water
ratio to suit your taste, but it's not rocket science
Facial flushing is a sign of alcohol intolerance
Hybrids
atomizer
at·om·izer /ˈætəmaɪzə US -ər/ n [C]
a container from which you can make
a liquid such as perfume come out in very small drops like mist
compound
a combination of two or more parts, substances,
or qualities
compound of
Communication
ability is a compound of several different skills.
Brush on a
damp-proofing compound.
as the ability of our students to articulate their
research is an important skill
knuckle
/ ˈnʌkl; ˋnʌkl/ n
faeces
fae·ces
also feces AmE /ˈfiːsiːz/ n [plural] formal
solid waste material from the bowels
>faecal /ˈfiːkəl/ adj
sensational
sen·sa·tion·al /senˈseɪʃənəl/ adj
very interesting, exciting, and surprising
a sensational
discovery
The show was a
sensational success.
con·sole1 /kənˈsəul US -ˈsoul/ v [T]
No one could
console her when Peter died.
clause
clause
W2S3 /klɔːz US klɔːz/ n [C]
[Date: 1200-1300; Language:
Old French; Origin: Medieval
Latin clausa 'end of a sentence', from Latin
claudere; CLOSE1]
a part of a written law or legal document
covering a particular subject of the whole law or document
A
confidentiality clause was added to the contract.
trick
an action that is intended to deceive, either as a
way of cheating someone, or
as a joke or form of entertainment: She played a really nasty trick on me -
she put syrup in my shampoo bottle!
sneaky
sneak·y /ˈsniːki/ adj
doing things in a secret and often dishonest or
unfair way
a sneaky little
trick
timber
[U] BrE
wood used for building or making things
The term utilities can also refer to the set of services provided by these
organizations consumed by the public: electricity, natural gas, water, and sewage. Broadband internet services
Mandate
[C]
an official instruction given to a person or
organization, allowing them to do something
Matters debated
in meetings do not become a mandate automatically.
[U and C]
the power given to one country to govern another
country
tanding order
Standing order
BrE
someone who provides information about you when you are trying to get a job
His headmaster
agreed to act as his referee.
em·ploy·ee
W2S2 /ɪmˈplɔɪ-iː, ˌemplɔɪˈiː/ n [C]
someone who is paid to work for someone else
= worker
Mould
Having a
sense of belonging is a common experience. Belonging means acceptance as a
member or part. Such a simple word for huge concept. A sense of belonging is a
human need, just like the need for food and shelter
Shorthold
(UK, law) Describing a tenancy that exists for an agreed term, at the end of which the property may be
recovered by the landlord
omission
noun
[U] ~ (from sth) the
act of not including sb/sth or not doing sth; the fact of not being
included/done: Everyone was surprised at her omission from the squad. ◆ The play was
shortened by the omission of two scenes. ◆ (formal) sins of omission (= not doing things that
should be done)
[C] a thing that has not been included or done: There were a number of errors and omissions in
the article.
sanitation
san·i·ta·tion /ˌsænɪˈteɪʃən/ n [U]
the protection of public health by removing and
treating waste, dirty water etc
Overcrowding
and poor
sanitation are common
problems in prisons.
appliance
ap·pli·ance /əˈplaɪəns/ n [C]
a piece of equipment,
especially electrical equipment, such as a cooker or washing machine,
used in people's homes
domestic/household
etc appliance
There's plenty
of space for all the usual kitchen appliances.
electrical/gas
appliance
occupation
oc·cu·pa·tion
W3S3 /ˌɔkjʊˈpeɪʃən US
ˌɑːk-/ n
[C]
a job or profession
Please state
your name, address and occupation.
professional
and managerial occupations
evict
e·vict /ɪˈvɪkt/ v [T]
to tell someone legally that they must leave the
house they are living in
evict sb from sth
They were
unable to pay the rent, and were evicted from their home.
lease1 W3 /liːs/ n [C]
a legal agreement which allows you to use a
building, car etc for a period of time, in return for rent
dispenser
di·spens·er /dɪˈspensə US
-ər/ n [C]
a machine which provides a particular amount of a
product or substance when you press a button or put money into it
a paper towel
dispenser
Mitigate
to make a situation or the effects of something
less unpleasant, harmful, or serious
Measures need
to be taken to mitigate the environmental effects of burning more coal.
someone who keeps records or accounts in an
office
clerk1 /klɑːk US kləːrk/
a clerk in a
commercial firm
AmE
someone whose job is to help people in a shop
the clerk in
the shoe store
3
bedrooms with reception converted etc.
statutory
stat·u·to·ry /ˈstætʃʊtəri US -tɔːri/ adj
fixed or controlled by law
statutory
employment rights
She's below the
statutory age for school attendance.
if I found a studio flat I could just about afford on
the outskirts of London, commuting costs would then tip it back into unaffordability
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Of those,
61% said the high cost of living and working
in London would drive them out.
rarity
rar·i·ty /ˈreərɪti US ˈrer-/ n plural rarities
be a rarity
to not happen or exist very often
Visitors were a
rarity in the village.
[C]
something that is valuable or interesting because
it is rare
Some of these
plants are national rarities.
`kiwi fruit
the
applicant should have had experience in a professional kitchen or a real
passion for fine dining and haute cuisine
Haute
couture
the
business of making fashionable and expensive clothes for women; the clothes
made in this business the world of haute couture
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cardio
car·di·o /ˈkɑːdiəu US ˈkɑːrdiou/ n [U] informal
any type of exercise that makes the heart
stronger and healthier, for example running
a combination
of cardio, weight training, and kung fu
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Further
discussion on the proposal will be deferred until April.
The committee deferred their decision .
tweezer
Groom
to take care of your own appearance by keeping
your hair and clothes clean and tidy
Her hair is
always perfectly groomed.
Please
call me to arrange a viewing
brawl 1
brawl1 /brɔːl US brɔːl/ n [C]
a noisy quarrel or fight among a group of people,
especially in a public place
a drunken brawl
in the street
peacock
the crime of stealing
a breakdown of all fees
mortgage 1
mort·gage1 W3 /ˈmɔːgɪdʒ US ˈmɔːr-/ n [C]
[Date: 1300-1400; Language:
Old French; Origin: mort 'dead' + gage 'promise']
a legal arrangement by which you borrow money
from a bank or similar organization in order to buy a house, and pay back the
money over a period of years
Your building
society or bank will help arrange a mortgage.
lodging
lodg·ing /ˈlɔdʒɪŋ US
ˈlɑː-/ n
[U]
a place to stay
It's
£90 a week for board and lodging
(=meals and a room) .
[C usually plural] old-fashioned a room in someone's house which you live in and pay rent for
Paul found
lodgings in the Marylebone Road.
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